Only
somebody who has lived with anxiety as either a sufferer or a carer
knows how devastating it can be. The affect can be seen and felt across every
aspect of your life for years and years.
So
how does anxiety make you withdraw from life?
Basically,
people with anxiety live their lives defensively, at a level where they are merely
coping instead of embracing. They are lifes passengers,
passive in their emotional and physical relationship with the world around them
- rather than activists who engage with their surroundings and interact
with people.
Now
I want to share something with you that will probably hopefully!
shock you.
Have
you ever sat down with pen and paper and worked out how much time you spend feeling
anxious every day of your life? An hour? Two? Four? Ten?!
If
you spend even a single hour a day in anxious mode, that equates to 30 hours a
month thats two waking days every month where you could
be playing with the kids, training for a marathon run, taking up a hobby, visiting
old friends LIVING your life. Instead, youre wasting that valuable
time on your anxiety.
At
its worst, I know my anxiety had reached the point where it took over 90%
of my waking thoughts. It left me totally exhausted.
Looking
back, I now know that by allowing this anxiety to have such a huge stake in my
life took real commitment on my behalf!
So,
I took control and by doing so, I was rewarded with all this extra time
and all this additional energy with which to fill the hours in a positive way!
What a bonus!
I
cannot tell you the sense of relief and liberation this sparked in me. And the
most wonderful thing is, just as anxiety is a downward spiral that sees you withdraw
from life, so this liberation is an uplifting cycle which grows and grows. Once
you begin, you cant contain it!
I
know that if I hadn't taken control and eliminated my anxiety for good, Id
still be on that downward spiral getting ever more sucked into the anxiety
abyss where your every waking moment is dominated by fear.
So,
dont be afraid of the fear, the unknown. Instead, look forward to all the
wonderful possibilities that YOUR life has yet to put your way!
Looking
at my family, Im so glad I faced up to my own fear. The answer is never
in retreating from life its everything to do with defeating anxiety.
About
the Author
Charles
Linden specialises in the treatment of anxiety symptoms. Learn how to cure yourself
of Anxiety quickly, permanently and get Free access to a valuable interview done
with Charles by the BBC visit: http://beatanxiety.amazon-4u.com
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