Most
of us are aware of the placebo effect and how potent it is in proving the mind/body
connection. However, do we know the far-reaching effects of a placebo? Well, drug
companies certainly do. We are more likely to believe that an expensive drug will
work better than a cheaper version! And how did we ever make up our minds to spend
over four dollars on a cup of coffee with an Italian name, sounding like a descendent
of Machiavelli? During these financially difficult times with massive layoffs
on Wall Street and the dollar being devalued we need to get a handle on our expenditures
and stop shopping to fill an empty heart or keep up an image. Dr. Dan Arielys
book, Predictably
Irrational,
explains our decision-making process using behavioral economics, a merger of psychology
and economics. You can listen to his interview on my Turn
On Your Inner Light radio show (WGBB Radio Long Island).
What
makes him an astute commentator on our spending tendencies is that he has always
been fascinated by what skews our reasoning abilities. It all began when he was
hospitalized at the age of eighteen for burns over seventy percent of his body.
Undergoing three years of excruciating treatment in a burn unit involving daily
bandage removal, soaking in a stinging disinfectant and then repeating the process
the next day, he wondered why the nurses did not listen to his suggestions for
a less painful bandage removal. Instead, they ripped off bandages as quickly as
they could as opposed to pulling them off slowly. Ariely began to realize that
they were working from their own personal bias as it was painful for them to see
him suffer and wanted to get it over with as quickly as possible. This life altering
experience triggered Arielys curiosity and the direction of his research.
Today Ariely is the Alfred P. Sloan Professor of Behavioral Economics at MIT.
Arielys work makes us aware of how our personal biases and expectations
influence our decisions; in other words, how self-justification gets in the way
of clear thinking. After you read the fiery introduction, Predictably Irrational
is witty and entertaining, an easy read about the patterns of our decision-making
process. We are not quite as unique as we would like to think when it comes to
spending.
Did
you know that you order differently in a restaurant depending on the people with
whom you are eating? Do you ever wonder why you go back for second helpings at
a buffet when you are absolutely stuffed? And the next time you accept that furniture
delivery with a 30-day money back guarantee, know that you are going to keep what
you purchased because that item is in your possession and you will have invested
an emotional attachment. This is why we have so much trouble letting go of things
and cleaning out our closets.
It
all boils down to the difference between social exchanges and market exchanges
and please do not mix the two together. For example, you will do something altruistically
(for free) like changing a tire for a senior citizen (social exchange), but should
that senior citizen give you a five dollar tip (market exchange) you will be insulted!
Ariely will amuse you when you ponder, if bringing a good bottle of wine will
be perceived in the same way as giving the cash value to your mother-in-law to
pay her for Thanksgiving Dinner!
Reading
Predictably Irrational will make you an educated consumer and more conscious
about your consumerism. Awareness of your motivations for spending could inspire
you to stop competing with the Jones and live more simply, at ease with
who you are. This will reduce your stress and increase contentment. Ariely writes
that so much of our lives is dedicated to ownership, wouldnt it be
nice to make the best decisions about this? However, he cites there are
three idiosyncrasies in human nature which hinder us:
We fall in love with what we already possess
We
focus on what we will lose, not what we will gain
We
assume other people see the transaction the way we do
In
the ultimate scheme of things we possess nothing. What most defines us is our
creative thinking, our invention, and then implementing that invention. Ariely
has questioned conventional economics through a creative new discipline, behavioral
economics. Do you dare to question the tried and true in your own life?
About
the Author Debbie
Mandel, MA is the author of Turn On Your Inner Light: Fitness for Body, Mind
and Soul, a stress-reduction specialist, motivational speaker, a personal
trainer and mind/body lecturer at Southampton College. She is the host of the
weekly Turn On Your Inner Light Show on WHLI 1100AM in New York City ,
produces a weekly wellness newsletter, and has been featured on radio/ TV and
print media. To learn more visit
her site.
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