How
to Nicely Say "No"
You have no lodged in your memory when you were a toddler.
Most toddlers say no quite easily and emphatically. In fact, they
put their whole being into it. The no asserts their
will as a separate entity.
Are
You Suffering from Impostor Syndrome?
While men can have this syndrome, it affects mostly women. The impostor
syndrome involves feeling unworthy, like a fake; ironically it is
experienced by highly successful people.
How
to Be Happy around the Clock
Fortuntaely, there are many concrete strategies to assist you in
making happiness go the distance at any time during the day. Here
is a sample weekday happiness schedule for you.
Flower
Power
Harvard recently conducted research and published a study entitled
"Ecology of Flowers." Researchers found that fresh flowers
do have an impact on mental and physical state of being. Learn what
kinds of flowers influence behaviors.
Using
Color for Stress Management
Color therapy is used in complementary, alternative healing. In
stress-management addressing the five senses creates a powerful
synergy, for example, combining music with exercise or deep breathing
while visualizing the color green.
The
Power of Our Beliefs
My return to playing tennis has been a good reminder for me on the
power that our beliefs have to influence the quality of our health
and lives.
How
to Get More Will Power
Are you needing more will power in order to follow through on your
new year's resolutions? This article be Debbie Mandel will get you
going in the right direction.
Fending
Off Family Feuds during the Holidays
When family members get together over the holidays, past tensions
and feuds are sure to come up. Here's some advice from Debbie Mandel
on how to have a good time and keep the resentment down.
Are
Family Relationships Keeping You Locked in a Box?
Is your family keeping you down? Do loaded and passive aggressive
comments make you feel bad about yourself and second guess what
you're doing with your life? This load of bricks can go away, if
you let it.
Are
You Experiencing Compassion Fatigue?
Debbie Mandel states, "You can reliably diagnose whether you
are suffering from compassion fatigue if after you help someone
out whether a family member, friend, colleague or stranger, you
feel resentful!"
Exercise
Transforms Your Brain
Debbie Mandel writes, "Many of us consider the endorphin rush
along with the shedding of stress hormones to be the ultimate benefits
of exercise. According to Dr. Ratey, the primary benefit of exercise
according to current neuroscience is keeping our brains operating
at peak performance for survival."
How
to Make More Rational Decisions
Did you know that you order differently in a restaurant depending
on the people with whom you are eating? Turns out a great new book
has been written on why you behave irrationally when you know better.
How
to Train Yourself to Be Happy
Debbie Mandel writes, "Feeling happier entails returning to
basic principles, what your grandmother always told you. Here are
a few seeds which will change your nature and allow happiness to
take root within you."
How
to Deal with Anger
Here are some tips on dealing with anger. Know the triggers and
also ways you can let the anger pass without taking over.
How
to Make New Friends
If you're recently moved or have otherwise found that your old friends
have evaporated, this article is a must-read. Debbie Mandel offers
some easy and practical tips on making new, non-toxic friends.
How
to Release Regret
Holding regret inside you is not a healthy thing to do. Learn to
how release regret and stay positive.
Why
You Shouldn't Always Listen to Your Doctor
It's been ingrained in us since childhood: doctors are the expert
and we have to follow their advice. Unfortunately, many doctors
are being bribed by pharmaceutical salesmen and care more about
pleasing them than they do about your health.
Self-Esteem:
The Magic X-Factor
Self-esteem critical to a full life – it's one of those make-or-break
variables that has the power to transform you, for good or bad.
This article reveals the importance of high self-esteem.
Waltzing
through Life in Harmony
Author and speaker Michael Levy points out how you can find harmony
and peace in your life by making just a few simple changes.
How
to Shake Off a Bad Mood
Some bad moods emanate from home, an angry argument. And others
seem to have no specific trigger, out of nowhere a darker veil descends.
Here's something you may not know: bad moods are contagious.
The
Stress-Relieving Benefits of Patience
Whats so good about being patient? In stress-management patience
can make the difference between an inflammatory response that harms
your body and enrages your mind.
How
to Stay Positive in a Negative Work Environment
Do you feel stuck in a bad job, in what you feel is a bad situation?
Do you hate going to work and feel like you're in a constantly negative
environment? Check out this article by Debbie Mandel to learn how
to stay positive.
Food
Equals Health
Most people don't realize the foods you eat correlate to how you
feel. If you consume healthy foods the overwhelming majority of
the time, then likely you are a healthy person; conversely, if you
eat mostly junk and processed foods, you probably don't feel that
good.
Are
You Living in a Non-Divorce?
Its like living with your roommate as your spouse is simply
not the object of your desire. You ease into being stuck and accept
this new delicate balance. Why has your romance drifted apart?
Working
with Criticism
Leah Day discusses the useful factors of criticism and how to divorce
one's emotions and incorporate positive feedback into your daily
routine.
The
Stress-Free College Admissions Essay
Are you or your teen struggling writing a college entry essay? Debbie
Mandel lays out several tips and tells how you can make the process
easier.
Eight
Tips on How to Increase Energy and Avoid Energy Drains
Emotional fatigue usually correlates with disappointment. You might
feel drained because you have been begging for scraps of attention,
approval, financial security and love. Here are eight easy tips
on how to get back on track.
A
Compassion Exercise
Most of us spend so much of our time wrapped up with our own problems
and lives that we forget to feel compassion for others. If you'll
try this simple exercise, you'll be pleasantly surprised at how
much better you'll feel simply by opening yourself to feeling more
for others.
How
to Speak Clearly and Make Yourself Heard
How many times have you tried to render a message, but instead of
people understanding what you were trying to say, they understood
almost the opposite?
The
Power of Breathing
Learn to use the power of breathing to relax yourself and relieve
stress.
The
Power of Charisma
This special report reveals techniques you can use in your life
to develop increased charisma, the elusive "something"
that helps us in so many ways.
Qigong
Secrets
Health writer and publisher John Du Cane discusses how you can use
gigong to calm a busy mind, heal a wounded heart,
and cleanse a toxic body.
Learn
to Control Your Dual Nature
Private Joker knew all about the duality of Man -- in fact, he was
even a symbol of our dual nature in the film Full Metal Jacket.
Learn how you can use your duality to work for you.
How
to Fight Depression
Don't let any one symptom of depression pull you into the doldrums.
Fight back and take your life back.
Overcoming
Shyness
Being shy isn't as bad as the extroverted world says it is. Nicky
Rogers writes how you can bolster your self esteem and embrace your
shyness while overcoming its obstacles.
How
to Cure the Fear of Change
Nicky Rogers quotes an inspirational song from the animated adventure
"The Hobbit" and shows you how to overcome your fear of
change.
Running
a Happy Dual Career Family
Yes, it can be done, and it can be done successfully. Follow a few
guidelines and always remember to respect your significant other.
The
Power of Positive Habits
Put your mind and body on "autopilot" and reach your goals...
automatically! Learn how habits are incredibly powerful tools for
personal growth and success.
Journey
to the Wild Divine
I broke down and started playing a computer game for the first time
in years. But this isn't just a computer game... it's also a biofeedback
tool that'll help you relax and feel great.
The
Haunting Feeling There's Something Wrong with You
Don't
let shame and feelings of self degradation ruin your life. Take
back control of your happiness and expel these demons with down
to Earth chakra healing. Written by Bill Harris.
Is
Worrying about Your Health Making You Sick?
Daily
we are bombarded with new medical information about our health.
Much of it is conflicting. As a result, we obsess about eating,
drinking and exercising to prevent: cancer, anemia, osteoporosis,
diabetes, etc..
How
to Communicate Your True Feelings during a Conflict
Writer and motivational speaker Debbie Martel tells you how to utilize
both sides of your brain to resolve conflicts while getting out
exactly what needs to be said.
How
to Brighten the Winter Blues
SAD got you down? Tired of those endless gray skies and cold days?
Here are some tips to you help you through the dreary season.
How
to Let Go of the Need to Be Right
We conclude our Debbie Martel articles this week with an excellent
one on how you can defeat the know-it-all we all have inside us.
How
to Recognize and Shed Toxic Friends
Debbie Mandel writes on the difficulty and stress of having "toxic"
friends -- friends who absorb your energy and always seem like a
blackhole in your life. Read this article and learn how to remove
these parasites.
The
Most Powerful Tool of Your Life
Steve Manning writes on the importance of keeping a daily journal
and how it enables you to have power in your life.
How
to Be Lucky
Nan Russell reveals how she learned to create her own luck after
she lost her job during the last recession. Good reading for those
who are blaming their problems on fate.
How
to Increase Reading Speed 300% in 20 Minutes
This article is a condensed overview of "how to increase reading
speed" principles taught to undergraduates of Princeton University
in 1998 at the PX Project in Princeton, New Jersey. The PX Project,
a single 3-hour cognitive experiment, produced an average increase
in reading speed and efficiency (RE) of 386%.
In
this Moment During my 23+ year spiritual journey, I've
read a lot of good descriptions about how to be in the moment, but
this new one by former Zen priest Josh Baran is one of the shortest
and sweetest. Must reading for anyone who wants more out of life.
How
to Control Your Own Life In this readable and thought-provoking article,
Leon Turner tells you how to take control of your own life. If you're
ready to please yourself first -- instead of other people -- this
is a must read.
Where
is the Witness?
Centerpointe's Director of Support shares an important article about
witnessing -- how you can learn to step back and enjoy life instead
of letting every little twist and turn upset your day.
Where
is the Love? There is no instruction booklet for loving. Love is not
something you "learn" how to do, nor is it a habit you
can develop if you try hard enough. This interesting article will
help you tap into the universal power of love.
Go
Ahead, Be Bad: It's Good for You
In this thought-provoking and assumption-busting article, you'll
learn why trying to be "good" all the time is often making
you miserable and frustrated.
Sweet
Smell of Success
Everyone wants to be a success, but most people don't have a clue
as to how to actually get what they want. In this readable and important
"how to do it" article, you'll learn techniques that you
can use to get what you want.
Pain
and Suffering According
to author Bill Harris, it "is not necessary to live a life
that contains suffering, and that there are definite ways to change
your life from one containing suffering to one where you are happy
and peaceful all the time." Read this article for the details.
Witnessing:
How to Let Go
Using the simple techniques detailed in this article, you can learn
how to change your behavior and attitudes simply by stepping back
and witnessing what's going on.
Success Secrets
In this excellent self improvement article, you'll learn how failure
is really just feedback telling you how to adjust your plan. Without
it, you wouldn't know what to do. Failure is essential to success.
You should not only expect it, you should welcome it. Must reading
for anyone who wants to succeed.
Six
Great Lessons
In this inspiring article, Bill LaRiviere shares with us some really
nice examples of the important things life teaches us. Health isn't
just food and exercise -- it also involves emotional poise and treating
others as we'd like to be treated.
How
to Succeed at Anything
You can use this simple, ten-point plan to write your own success
story. Stop settling for less than you can be. Read this article
right now and act on its advice.
Healing
Hands: Learn the Power of Hands on Healing
In this fascinating narrative, Leon Turner shares what he's learned
about how to use the power of the human hands, mind, and spirit
to heal others who are suffering. Must reading for anyone interested
in nontraditional healing methods.
Positive
Aids to Peace of Mind
Sri N.
Ananthanarayanan outlines and explains specific "how to"
steps you can take to attain peace of mind. Without calm at the
center, I think it's pretty much impossible to ever attain superior
health.
Peace
Pilgrim and Health
Some simple and beautiful wisdom about physical and
mental health from a woman who devoted the final years of her life
trying to bring peace to the world. Great reading!
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