In
the Northeast we have had some significant snow storms in early December forcing
us to shovel and stay home. Our initial reaction was, How beautiful and
pure. Then the next day when driving and walking became difficult, we began
complaining, Who needs snow! By the time Christmas rolled around no
one longed for or dreamed of a white Christmas as we all had our fill. It seems
that we get bored quickly with the terrain and need to change things up. We are
tired of the short days and cold temperatures. When we feel bored, mildly depressed,
or burned out, we always look for external stimulation.
Strange,
we never look within ourselves where the cold emptiness begins. Ironically, the
solution exists inside where we can find greater control and empowerment through
positive perception. Seeing every day as a good day with its special distinguishing
moments creates peacefulness and clarity. And for those of us who demand immediate
gratification, we can change our perception immediately whether at work or at
home. It can be as simple as: rearranging a few knick knacks, where we usually
sit at the kitchen table, or moving a chair or lamp from here to over there. If
I change my seat at the kitchen table, I really see things from a different perspective.
I might notice something new in my field of vision. If I rearrange paintings or
furniture, I see them with a fresh eye and appreciate them differently. When we
are beset by winter doldrums, long nights, clearly we need to let the pendulum
swing the other way to restore the balance.
Here
are 10 tips to help you change your perception of winter and bring warmth and
light into a chilly life:
Raise
the blinds and let the light shine in. Sit by the window look out and gaze, or
read. Feel the warmth.
Try
eating more hot soups and stews. Add beans and lentils to your diet. These hearty
meals are both comforting and nourishing. (If you use canned soups pay attention
to the amount of sodium as many ready-made soups are high in sodium.)
Go
outside to reset your biological clock. Let natural sunlight counteract SAD. Appreciate
the winter landscape: the tree architecture that we never notice when
the leaves are flourishing, or the feathery ornamental grasses swaying in the
wind.
Exercise
to stimulate and bring warmth to your body. Many of us are bored with treadmills
and stairmasters that go nowhere. Change up your routine. Dress warmly and go
for a brisk fitness walk. If you can get to the shore, a walk on the beach is
peaceful and inspiring. Try some new classes in Pilates, Yoga, Belly Dancing,
Salsa and Weight Training. Join a league to participate in fun team sports. Get
a buddy to exercise with or make friends in fitness centers.
Connect
with sunny people. Do volunteer work. We tend to get isolated in the winter and
keep to our igloos. Get out and see positive people who appreciate you and if
you cant get out, use the phone or email.
Bring
tropical plants into the house. Their gracious leaves and greenery will lift your
spirits and give you a taste of eternal summer.
Look
at the color orange which is cheering. No need to repaint your home; just put
something orange on the desk or your coffee table.
Try
a warm glowing candle light meditation. Light a candle in the evening and stare
at the flame for about 30 seconds to a minute. Then close your eyes and breathe
to your own natural rhythm and see what comes up for you in meditation
Give
yourself an auto-massage. Warm some inexpensive olive oil in the microwave and
massage your body from head to toe. Long strokes for the limbs, circular strokes
for the torso. Make sure to massage the temples, and using your thumbs, do windshield
wiper movements under and over your eyes. Feel the warmth pervade your body.
Simplify
your home, room by room. Clean out the clutter and donate what you have not used
in years. In winter we tend to contract and go inward. Use this indoors time to
organize your home. Sharing with the needy will give you an inner glow.
About the Author
Debbie Mandel, MA is the author of Turn On Your Inner Light: Fitness
for Body, Mind and Soul, a stress-reduction specialist, motivational speaker,
a personal trainer and mind/body lecturer at Southampton College. She is the host
of the weekly Turn On Your Inner Light Show on WHLI 1100AM in New
York City, produces a weekly wellness newsletter, and has been featured on radio/TV
and print media. To learn more click
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